Have you been traumatized by infidelity?
 
The phrase broken heart belies the real trauma behind the all-too-common occurrence of infidelity. Psychologist Dennis Ortman likens the psychological aftermath of sexual betrayal to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) in its origin and symptoms, including anxiety, irritability, rage, emotional numbing, and flashbacks. Using PTSD treatment as a model, Dr. Ortman will show you, step by step, how to:
 
• work through conflicting emotions
• Understand yourself and your partner
• Make important life decisions
 
Dr. Ortman sees recovery as a spiritual journey and draws on the wisdom of diverse faiths, from Christianity to Buddhism. He also offers exercises to deepen recovery,  such as guided meditations and journaling, and explores heart-wrenchingly familiar case studies of couples struggling with monogamy. By the end of this book, you will have completed the six stages of healing and emerged with a whole heart, a full spirit, and the freedom to love again.
CONTENTS
 
Acknowledgments   ixPreface   xiIntroduction   1 
Part One. Infidelity as Trauma
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1. Symptoms of Post-Infidelity Stress Disorder (PISD)  
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Imprisoned in Hurt and Rage 
2. Differing Responses of Men and Women to Infidelity
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The Many Faces of PISD