Getting Back Out There: Secrets to Successful Dating and Finding Real Love after the Big Breakup [Paperback]

You're ready for a new romance, but how can you avoid repeating past mistakes? The author ofGetting Past Your Breakupoffers an essential guide to building a healthy relationship.

Plenty of dating books offer advice on how to flirt or catch someone's eye, but they won't help you make better decisions during the selection process so you can find real love. Based on years of research and work with her own clients, Susan Elliott offers a proven plan that will help you to:

Examine past relationships for unfinished business and negative patterns
Identify warning signs and red flags
Keep your standards and boundaries high, even when you're head over heels
Work through rejection, rebounding, and other bumps in the road
Decide when to take a relationship to the next level and when to say goodbye

With practical rules, strategies, and self-assessments -- including tips for dating as a parent and dating online --Getting Back Out Therewill help you transition from your split to a happy, healthy new relationship.Susan J. Elliott, JD, MEdis the creator of theGetting Past Your Breakupblog and seminar series. A sought-after relationship commentator, motivational speaker, certified grief counselor, and attorney, she has helped thousands of clients and readers transform their love lives. She lives in New York.
GettingPastYourBreakup.comInfoDad blog, 1/29/15
“Elliott deserves credit for tackling so many issues involved in post-breakup life and for handling them in a plainspoken way…Her willingness to discuss everything from specific sexual issues to the right time to introduce children to a new partner is admirable. On balance, her statement that ‘this is a different kind of dating book' is accurate, andGetting Back Out Thereis a useful counterbalance to more-superficial books about dating and mating.”

Publishers Weekly, 12/1/14
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