Life Lessons from Soccer: What Your Child Can Learn On and Off the Field-A Guide for Parents and Coaches [Paperback]

Parent-tested and approved by the American Youth Soccer Organization (AYSO), this indispensable book by a parent, coach, and doctor shows soccer moms, dads, and coaches how to encourage children to look beyond winning and to turn every game and practice into an opportunity to teach life lessons.

Dr. Vincent Fortanasce applies his expertise in child development to guide parents and coaches on:

• Emphasizing fun over performance and morality over victory
  
• Understanding the way kids think and their capabilities at each developmental stage
  
• Controlling their own touchline behavior
  
• Instilling character, conscience, and courage in every player, regardless of talent
  

InLife Lessons from Soccer, Vincent Fortanasce celebrates the enchantments of soccer as a learning ground for family values and life lessons -- and for becoming closer to your children on and off the field.Vincent Fortanasce, MD, a nationally acclaimed psychiatrist, neurologist, and bioethicist, practices at Los Angeles County Hospital, USC. A former Olympic athlete and an experienced soccer and Little League coach, he lives in Pasadena, California.Chapter One: Dreams

The 1st Life Lesson:

A Child Without a Dream Is Like a Boat Without a Sail

Seven-year-old Kathy beamed a smile that could have brightened the rainiest of days. Mom, Mom! she cried out excitedly. Her mother was pouring milk into a mug with a picture of Madonna on the side. What is it? she asked.

I know what I want to be when I grow up! I want to be like Mia Hamm!

Her mother sighed. She's not another rock star, is she?

No, Mom, she's the greatest soccer player ever! I'm gonna be like her, you watch. Her words were spoken with the absolute certainty that only fantasy-laden children can muster. Can I get a soccer ball and a poster of her maybe? I'll clean my room and vacuum forever. I promise, I promiselS¡