Not Always in the Mood: The New Science of Men, Sex, and Relationships [Hardcover]

If there is one thing we know about men and sex it is that men are always in the mood. Any time, any place. Right?

Wrong.

Mens sexual desire has long been depicted as high, simple, and unwavering. But the new research around mens desire tells us this is far from true; and that good sex and relationships are suffering from these long-held misconceptions. In Not Always in the Mood: The New Science on Men, Sex, and Relationships sex researcher and relationship therapist Sarah Hunter Murray presents a lively, timely, and critical exploration of the newest, most surprising science on men and sex, shattering myths about mens sexuality and helping todays couples connect more deeply and authentically than ever before.

One-by-one, Murray examines the most detrimental, deep-held beliefs we as a society promote around men and their desire, and dive into how they affect our intimate relationships daily  and what to do about it. Do men actually crave and enjoy sex more than women? Do men do the wanting and prefer the chase? Where do they stand on sexual rejection? Whats the deal with porn? Answering these questions and more, this is a book for modern women and men alike. Moving beyond typical heres what he likes sexual tips, the book empowers readers and offers a completely new perspective on sexuality that will validate mens experiences and help their partners to a greater understanding of the psychology and emotions surrounding them.

Sarah Hunter Murray, PhD, is a leading researcher on sexual desire. For over a decade, she has dedicated her career to examining the nuances of sexuality as they affect modern relationships. Murray is best known for her groundbreaking work challenging traditional assumptions about mens desire. Murray is a regularly sought-after sex and relationship expert for media outlets including Mens Health, Fashion Magazine,Elle and Todays Parent. Her research has been featured in LiveScience, Mic.com, Jezebel, and Thló,