Im totally cool with him being a father, I dont have to worry about her mother either because if he has her with him when he picks me up hell let me know ahead of time so Ill no to be on my best behavior when we drop her off. One time her mother was walking out of her parents house to get her and was talking shit to me calling me the new white whore in his life. I quickly corrected her ass, I told her you might be a whore or allow men to call you that but Im not one and my parents didnt raise me that way