A Survivor's Education: Women, Violence, and the Stories We Dont Tell [Hardcover]

A Kirkus Best Book of 2024 

An "impeccably researched book" (Michelle Bowdler) about intimate abuse, campus politics, and the narratives we choose to believe "gives a fresh perspective on what it means to be a survivor." (Kirkus starred review)

In this poignant self-investigation, historian and journalist Joy Neumeyer explores how violence against women is portrayed, perceived, and adjudicated today. Interweaving the harrowing account of the abuse she experienced as a graduate student at Berkeley with those of others who faced violence on campus and beyond, Neumeyer offers a startling look at how the hotly-debated Title IX system has altered university politics and culture, and uncovers the willful misremembrance that enables misconduct on scales large and small.   

Deeply researched, daringly inquisitive, and resonant for our times,A Survivor's Educationreveals the entanglement of storytelling, abuse, and power–and how we can balance narrative and evidence in our attempts to determine what “really” happened.  Joy Neumeyeris a writer and historian of Russia and Eastern Europe whose essays have appeared in publications including theNew York Times, theNation, theAtlantic, andNew Left Review. She was a Fulbright fellow in Russia and has lived and worked as a reporter in Moscow and Warsaw. She received a PhD in history from the University of California, Berkeley in 2020.“Neumeyer is a lively, frank and passionate writer. By combining her very personal story with an analysis of misogyny in the wider culture, she has created a book full of invaluable information.” 
 KQED (NPR San Francisco)"In this sharp debut memoir, the author expertly weaves together historical abuses of power on a global scale with carefully researched stories of interpersonal violence, allowing her toló.