Winnicott and 'Good Enough' Couple Therapy: Reflections of a couple therapist [Hardcover]

Claire Rabin innovatively applies the Winnicottian theory of the good enough mother to couple therapy, redirecting attention to the therapeutic relationship and the therapists self-awareness regardless of the methods used. Using this lens, even the therapists mistakes become an opportunity for repairing both the therapeutic relationship and the partners own personal maturity.

The intensity and pressure of couple therapy can make each case a test of the therapists competence. The need for neutrality constitutes on-going pressure on the therapist and the proliferation of therapeutic methods can cause confusion about which might be most useful in each situation. Applying theory effectively is easier said than done within the context of the powerful emotions unleashed in sessions, which can result in a catastrophic atmosphere. These factors can make it hard for therapists to utilise their own skills and knowledge within sessions of couple therapy.