Help your loved one drink less, reduce your stress, save your relationship
In a world that glorifies alcoholfrom signature cocktails to craft beerhelping a loved one with a drinking problem feels like a losing battle. Youve begged, bargained, and demanded they stop, only to see consumption ramp up and your relationship break down. This approach enforces a vicious cycle of confrontation, shame, and more drinking. Author and filmmaker Maureen Palmer has been there, and shes found a better way.
InYou Dont Have to Quit, Palmer shifts the conventional abstinence-only mindset to one that encourages positive change and harm reduction. She interviews world experts whove created successful tools, techniques, and resources to help reduce or stop drinking entirely. Her twenty practical, science-backed strategies operationalize compassion and empathyand healthy boundariesto help your loved one drink less.
With refreshing candor, Palmer shares her hard-won experience to debunk powerful myths that breed shame and secrecy and lead to relationship-killing conflict. This is the road map out of combat into collaboration and reduced consumption: harm reduction for the relationship too. Whether drinking less is a shared goal, or you want to influence your loved one in that direction, this book shows you how.
Maureen Palmer is an award-winning former Canadian Broadcasting Corporation journalist and filmmaker. She writes extensively on substance use treatment, including evidence-based harm reduction approaches for alcohol. With her partner, Mike Pond, Palmer co-wrote the book
Wasted: An Alcoholic Therapists Fight for Recovery in a Flawed Treatment System, and directed the CBC documentary adaptation. She lives in Spirit Bay, near Victoria, BC, on the traditional territory of the Scianew people.
InYou Dont Have to Quit, Maureen Palmer melds compassion with practicality, generosity of heart with common sense, loving intentil3I