Design the life of your dreams -- starting right now! Have you ever thought about how your life would be if anything -- absolutely anything -- were possible? Gail Blanke, founder of Lifedesigns, is a living example of this philosophy, andIn My Wildest Dreamsgives you her tools for transforming your dreams into reality, for defining your great life however you define great. Like the thousands of women who have come to Blanke's workshops, you too will understand that you can design a life as outrageously wonderful as you can imagine. Clearly written techniques and a step-by-step set of exercises will show you how to: * Unravel the mind-set that keeps you trapped in the past * Declare and redefine your interpretation of a great life * Listen powerfully to discover new possibilities * Connect to resources you have at your fingertips but may not see * Create a strong network of women committed to your progress, who will remind you of your dream, and ensure that you follow through on your life's joy! So stop settling and starting soaring, right now!Contents Introduction Designing your life, as opposed to waiting for it to happen; moving past politics and taking responsibility for your own joy. PART ONE: BREAKING THE GRIP OF THE PAST Chapter One: Commitments Discovering what you're committed to; refining your commitments; the difference between a promise and a commitment; speaking from your commitments as a way of connecting; listening for commitments in others. Chapter Two: A Different Kind of Listening Listening to the present vs. listening for old beliefs; how listening structures what we perceive as reality; five common filters to our listening. Chapter Three: Incompletions How incompletions keep us in the past; distinction between finished and complete (realm of action vs. realm of language); taking an inventory of your incompletions; methodslăŻ