Minding is a process that involves behavior, thought, and feeling that facilitate couples' achievement of closeness.Minding is a process that involves behavior, thought, and feeling that facilitate couples' achievement of closeness. It is a never ending commitment to knowing and being known by one's partner, care in the attributions made about one's partner and the relationships, and respect and acceptance of one's partner. Minding the Close Relationship will serve as a supplementary textbook for undergraduate and graduate courses in social psychology, communication, family studies, and clinical , and counseling psychology.Minding is a process that involves behavior, thought, and feeling that facilitate couples' achievement of closeness. It is a never ending commitment to knowing and being known by one's partner, care in the attributions made about one's partner and the relationships, and respect and acceptance of one's partner. Minding the Close Relationship will serve as a supplementary textbook for undergraduate and graduate courses in social psychology, communication, family studies, and clinical , and counseling psychology.This volume provides a statement of a new theory of how committed romantic partners can maintain and enhance their close relationships over an extended period. It blends the latest relationship scholarship on closeness with practical advice and comparison of minding with several other major theories of how to maintain closeness. Minding is a package of reciprocal thought, feeling, and behavior and involves components of behavior aimed at knowing and being known by one's partner, attribution about one's partner and the relationship, respect, acceptance, and a never ending commitment to the process.Preface and acknowledgements; 1. Introduction to the minding concept; 2. Minding: definition and components; 3. Knowing and being known by one's partner; 4. Attributions in close relationships; 5. Acceptance, respect, reciprocity, and continuity; 6.lC)